us, in Peru, we are 10 people In Peru there are no pensions, then very often the parents live with their children and grandchildren, is widespread in Peru the size of the house, and apartments have taken hold on a large scale only in Lima, for the sake of the metropolitan area. So if you think about my family now in Peru, I think physically to 10 people who live with me. Space management is not difficult: mom-dad-youngest child in the same room (x 2), the girls sleep together in one room of them, the grandmother is sleeping with another child, kitchen, living room, the laundry facilities are common. The bathrooms are not enough to create unrest in the morning especially when there are 4 children who go to school and an adult that comes very soon. The grandmother cooking for all, we divide the cost, you can buy rice and sugar bags of 20 kg. Everybody tries to do its part because it does not lack the essentials to anyone.
I have always been accustomed to the size of the house that contains your family, so only my parents and my brother, but here Ale wakes up and goes to sleep with his cousins \u200b\u200band there are babysitting them cleaning ladies There is organized and covers every need. I can work from home and I know that Al is keeping an eye on, I go for a ride, and I bring all children, larger ones that help me with the children.
Although not at all a person introverted, it was difficult to get used to another way of managing space and time for this in our house shuffle the two traditions: we are only three of us but there will be enough room because you can stop the children of our family, because we would not be so far and I'm very fond of my grandchildren and they are particularly attached to girls.
And children are almost always in love and harmony; Ale is getting used to be observed by others and when no one wants to play with him, playing alone (which of the teachers' asylum see super bad ..... but the Peruvian education I do not want to talk now). In addition, is getting used to sharing his things with others, without that I should ask him and defend his cousins: the last time the larger cousin did not want to cross the street for fear of a dog, and he was placed in front talk to the dog and he did move further away. Sure, there are also some difficult aspects of staying well together, but they are part of the game, and we must learn to handle these situations well, but I realized that an open and generous heart has always compensated. But what I'm really easy to do, because you already did it between me and my brother, my parents, is not permitted to listen to children and whether differences in treatment in the end My children are all the same I can not do something for Ali, at least not if I can do to the only other male cousin Victor, and if the game is made of wood, there is also the cousin of Al, because we are an equal family and among them there must be differences.
And maybe one day, they astrarranno their experience to understand that we are all a 'big family and there must be a difference of treatment which is the basis of bad words like racism, xenophobia, apartheid .
